I believe that people make people sin. Some acts are sinful and unintentional and are response actions. Sometimes people act before thinking. Just because you want instant revenge, retaliation, we SHUT our conscience and do the wrong things. Because the guy left you for another, you set him or the new girl up; just because she slapped you, you were awake all night planning a wonderful revenge that turned out to be a drastic action. While you are busy planning and fuming with anger, the fellow you are planning against is probably having fun and doesn’t know. So he/she stole from you? Are you not living and all your basic needs provided for? It is said that it is not only through our actions we commit sin but through our thoughts.
You go out and see a chic wearing a mini dress or see an endowed babe wearing a bikini and you start having lustful thoughts, it is wrong. But he couldn’t help it because he is not blind, he looked and admired and the thought crossed his mind and it became a sin. Remember this commandment: “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife.” But she tempted the man, trouble came to him. It takes a lot to clear your thoughts and make it clean, but that is exactly what you need to do, CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS.
Control your thoughts! |
Letting hurts go is the best gift you can give yourself because it makes you burden free. Why carry so much weight in your heart, your heart is primarily to pump blood, why use it as a waste air bag? YES! Waste air bag, it is like putting air in a balloon, the more air you blow into it, the more it expands till it blows up and there is no remedy. That is where all the bitterness comes from. It is draining and saddening. It is good to breathe and let it all out. It is written in the bible, Luke 6:29, Matthew 5:39, that revenge is for GOD and you have to be patient, might not happen while you are alive but will happen somehow. BUT we know all these and really wish to retaliate, we want the now action not the later one. We want to win and have the last laugh and not feel oppressed or have bruised ego.
Just leave it and don’t listen to the saying that “REVENGE IS BEST SERVED COLD”. It’s best to LET GO.